It's hot out, and yeah I mean that sexy kind of hot, too.

This entry is going to get really personal. It's a topic I like to be more open about, a topic that many people might label wrong to release to the public, but it's a topic that needs to said. Every so often.

So excuse me if I fantasize a little off topic.

I'm laying here in my bed typing this post while wearing a pair Giordano Blues boxers....
I've given you the setting. Boxers are super comfortable and thin.


A publication has been released. Have you heard of it?
50 Shades of Grey
For those who haven't heard of it, it's a BDSM novel.
B-Bondage
D-Dominance/Discipline
S-Submission/Sadism
M-Masochism

You got it, it's erotica.

It's a fan fiction that became popular enough to get published and now it's on its way to be made into a film. I have my own complaints about how it could manage a publication, I can actually rant on it due to my experience in the fan fiction world. Not only as a writer in the past, but also as a frequent reader.

And that's why no one really understands my point of view on the matter. Because EVERYONE around me who is reading these 3books has no experience with fan fiction in general, let alone understand how it works and what it looks like. I'm not going to go off on this topic though or else I'll never get to reach the main point of this blog.


Sex.
That's what this is about.


Women are reading this story. Why? Because we lack a sexual passion. What we don't really talk about, is what we want. I have only begun reading this fiction, and I've gotten to the very detailed sex scenes, but nothing... too horrifying yet though. I'm addicted. I want to know everything he wants to do to her. I want to know how he's touching her, her reactions, her wants.

We are reading this because women are horny hoes. We are.
But we'll never admit to it because it seems wrong.


I can put myself in this example, and I'm sure I speak for others as well. We want to be controlled. We want our lover to act like a beast and lust us and torture us with his sexual plays. We want to be told what to do. Most of us, at least. We like the demand. And we love the pain.

Women seem to like seeing the pleasure in their man's face, the fire in his eyes, nothing but the want in his dick. We want him to want us with desire that he acts firmly on. It's attractive when a man takes control.

We also like variety.
We don't want that everyday vanilla sex. Thrust into me like you need it. Flip me around, fuck me on the side, slap me, pull my hair and make me scream. It's so exciting. We love being submissive and we want to experience being held down, being told what to do to him, punishing us. And many men love a submissive woman.

This book is to satisfy the sexual needs of women who can't get this kind of excitement from their loved one. It would also be embarrassing to ask them to play a game like this. I would personally bring it up to my boyfriend. After reading what I have read so far, I want to have my hands tied together, I want to be tortured where you stop me from cumming, etc etc. I want to feel that. This book is porn through words, without a doubt. But I think it'll get women to say what they want more. It's a hot topic now. It's circulation by word of mouth, and I think loved ones will have the chance to give these new things a try.

I firmly believe that they should.


Sex is an action of pleasure, mainly for the man himself. He has his needs, all he has to do is seduce the female and the deed is done. But if women talk about this more and tell their man to "try" tying them to the bed, do blindfold, be more aggressive and controlling, the woman can have more to say about sex itself. They can express the feeling and want more, and this want will most likely turn their man on even more, leading to a more healthy relationship. In return, a woman can also learn to be more controlling, satisfying the male who loves to be dominated once in a while.

It's a healthy book. I like the idea of BDSM and regardless of what other women might believe, I think it's a good idea to practice "safe" but new ways of experiencing the pleasures of sex. It's just my personal opinion though. It's not a bad idea and women need to be more open to porn and new ways of pleasure. We point fingers at men and disgrace them for being more needy when dealing with their hormones but women are just as bad.

No one wants to think about women masturbating, watching porn, looking at graphic images, or being turned on by something on the internet. It's disgusting in a way. But we exist. Because we all do it, and it's normal. This book is a wake up call for women to be more outspoken. I don't know if it will have any affect, but I'm glad we have more erotica thrown into the public. We are all interested in the ways of having sex, but we don't know where to begin.


I'm going to read more before going to sleep now.

It's an addicting read.
I don't believe it should have been published, just due to its fanfiction quality, but I'm happy for the author and that she's getting something so naughty out into the public.

Once again, this is just a personal opinion and that's it.